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You can see why the charities are so desperate to get funding and are now in trouble for being overenthusiastic - because a lot of social problems are being pushed into their hands.We have many elderly now who can't deal with our fast changing technology at all which isn't surprising since many of the less elderly find it quite hard to keep up.Add to that rationing of care eg hearing aids and hospital transport and it is no surprise that people are becoming increasingly isolated.  If they could meet up more in buildings that were accessible then they might be able to discuss and sort out some of their problems themselves (if they aren't too embarrassed to which is another big problem).It brings tears to my eyes when I think of an elderly relative who had cancer and a Macmillan nurse visiting but to whom no one had explained and shown the washable (or even the throw-away) mats that you can buy for less than £10 (washable) that you can use to protect a chair against incontinence.  People are sent home from hospital completely unprepared, catheterized and in many cases hardly able to walk.  No wonder they are more likely to have accidents of all kinds, and become isolated.  Sometimes I wonder whether the intention is that they should die of shame.  For £10 - or 2 x £10?And here are we using the internet to buy things with options of all sorts of different products.  How can this be right?Carers are usually paid minimum wage and they are often not paid for the travel time between clients so they "clip" the time spent with a client.  This is not helped when their timetables don't allow them to spend the allotted time with each client.  And not helped again when everything has to be explained all over again each time a different carer attends.  There can be a complete lack of continuity of care.  On the other hand you just might strike lucky.  (Oh and the fear of incontinence is worse than the reality.)

Philippa Bond ● 4051d