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I think loneliness has a lot to do with this. Plenty of government reports on that subject.It can be a big effort to cook for yourself even if you are a good cook and you like cooking. Other barriers get in the way sometimes and then the self care is at risk.Compared to the sixties it’s difficult not to fall into some kind of eatery on the high street. Is there now an expectation among most classes that eating out is the thing to do even though it might mean starving for the rest of the week? And do singles go out to eat more because they want company?If you are single and on benefits I guess you would be lucky to keep back more than £30 per week for food. So I wonder how Keith would adjust his recipes to produce a 7 day menu which is healthy nutritional filling and tasty. I watch his ideas closely because they are sensible and sometimes very helpful with special tips. But on £30, which is enough to make anyone feel lonely. I hope someone will come up with a long list of baked potato recipes please. I don’t like butter.What so often gets missed out is the old fall back which I was brought up on. That is a good thick tasty soup as a first course which fills a lot of gaps.If you are unemployed and on benefits, then there is time to go hunting for cheap good food. Not all the year but there is wild fruit in our green Borough and this can be cooked and frozen, there are veggie and fruit sales at some allotments (at silly prices) and of course if someone wants a little home grown produce they can always help out if they look hard enough to tend someone’s garden in exchange for produce.

George Knox ● 5049d

You're an inspiration, Keith!For years I too didn't have to watch the pennies, but like most these days and having a child, I now have to watch my purse.  I'm not the younger generation, Marie, but hope I can join in!  I have no idea how much our weekly spend is as I too buy offers and then store them and will buy toiletries along with food, so I don't know.  However, the last 2 weeks I made a list of everything in the cupboards and we don't buy anything we already have in the cupboard.  It's good to see the stockpile dwindling.  I cook from scratch.  Now and again we treat ourselves to an M&S dine in for 2 £10 offer or an Abel and Cole frozen meal, but that's rare now.  I batch cook and I think that's the key to saving money.  I cook a massive spag bol with lots of grated veggies in there for my unsuspecting 4 year old who believes she hates veg.  I bulk it up with all kinds and anything that may be going off if left any longer.  It probably costs me £8 perhaps but that's organic, almost all of it.  I then serve up a meal for 3 of us and then divide it into separate meals for our daughter.  I can get a meal for 3 out of that plus 7 to 8 separate meals for her.  Not bad going.  Ditto chilli con carne and other meals.If I have cream, cheese and/or butter that needs using, I will make a big saucepan of cheese sauce, possibly with cauliflower mixed in, then freeze that in portions too.We have a couple of hens who lay our eggs (although we probably spend more on them than we recoup and they are spoilt as pets!) so we use eggs when we have them and my husband often dips into the freezer where we may have stored stale bread, bread ends or brown bananas, etc, and he'll make a banana loaf or something lovely like that.  This week I will make sure I tot-up exactly how much I spend on feeding my family and get back to you.

Angela White ● 5048d

'm 40, have a husband and 2 children under the age of 10 and cook everything fresh, daily, from scratch. I grew up watching my mum cook, so I learned not only to cook but to plan a meal, budget, use left overs etc. We also did cookery at school, rock cakes and scones and things, as well incidentally, as sewing, weaving, knitting, and patchworking. I always loved to cook and would happily spend school holidays working my way through a cook book trying out new recipes. Culturally food was important in our family, you couldn't have someone round and not feed them and the more people around the table the better. I wouldn't feed my kids ready meals, I'd rather whip up an omelette if I was in that much of a hurry, at least I know what's in it.It's interesting what Maire said about the Kosovans and applies to a lot of village cultures that grow their own food and keep their own animals for food. Every part of the animal is used, vegetables and fruit are pickled, made into jams etc because winters are harsh and the food has to last. Food is hearty, lots of stews and soups, as you say from the bones. Staples of bean stews and soups, bulked out with barley, potatoes, pasta and other pulses when meat was running short, often flavoured with a small piece of smoked sausage or bacon rind. When food is a matter of survival it's amazing what you can achieve with relatively little, but you have to know how. We are faced with so much pre-prepared food, a whole generation wouldn't  know what to do with a chicken that wasn't already plucked, trimmed and cleaned out, we can even buy our vegetables peeled and chopped, but it's more expensive than say heading to North End Rd market.I don't really shop on a weekly basis so I can't give you a figure. I buy staple items like rice, pulses and pasta to last longer than a week. I buy meat fresh but freeze some of it and defrost it as I need it. I'll buy a larger bag of say potatoes which is cheaper than a small one and split it with my mum. Cooking affords you more versatility and I believe it's cheaper and healthier in the long run, I was lucky that my mum passed on her wisdom so that I'd at least have a fighting chance at getting by on £40.

Milena Vincic ● 5048d